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  1. Dec 26, 2023Twitter · post🤣 the DMs i receive sometimes... https://t.co/X2EIFSU2W5
  2. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · quotekitten is back!!! https://x.com/a_musingcat/status/1739502935120220265
  3. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@mage_ofaquarius lol https://t.co/PClezBJ1Uw
  4. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@indif4ent 🫶 yeah sigh, but if the person on the low-EQ end doesn't see this and insists on interpreting all application of social skill as "manipulation" ...
  5. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · quote😳 i think y'all r very adorable! n i feel protective 🫶 https://x.com/mage_ofaquarius/status/1739501211769045153
  6. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@responsiblparty i do not feel the discussion is particularly nuanced tho wrt one partner having significantly more social/emotional ability than the other? have i missed some good tweets on the subject?
  7. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@mage_ofaquarius umm sigh rough gesture similarly to how IQ maps to intelligence, EQ gesturing at social skills n also self awareness n emotional regulation, the whole bundle
  8. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · replyand like wealth or IQ, EQ can be very beneficial to the couple when they're aligned w common goals, so it's not like anyone really wants to select against any of these traits...
  9. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · replyand like any power dynamic it's not only "person w leverage will use it selfishly" but also the issues of how to relate w consent n does the person on the low power end weaponize it via guilt or social pressure, etc
  10. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · posteveryone jokes about IQ gap power dynamics but i feel like the real & under-appreciated issue is EQ gap power dynamics
  11. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · repostRT @mattyglesias: DC and [a relatively small part of] LA on the same scale. https://t.co/FMhqtBAnoe
  12. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@plains_wraith @qephatziel i like anatomy intact n covered w pleasing plumpness n skin
  13. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@plains_wraith @qephatziel yes, lol i reliably hate the images u share w me, too much gore
  14. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · repostRT @breaking2morrow: Bot passing mirror test... Noice
  15. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@qephatziel lol.... i hate seeing everyone's raw & cooked meat pics on the TL... so yeah id be very relieved if everyone would stop that, or at least cover them w explicit tap-to-view filter as yeah to me they feel similar to other forms of dead body pics
  16. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@dav_ell it was; huh?
  17. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · quoteagree this is important relationship skill- recognizing when someone is reacting out of all proportion to a small thing and taking time to understand what's behind the reaction https://x.com/animalologist/status/1739440619259326839
  18. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@BadMan98368882 ok 🫶
  19. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@plurfae glad it's been cathartic but also i am so curious to read it
  20. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@dav_ell huh?
  21. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@dav_ell ? i don't know? but im just saying it is difficult to convince anyone to change a pretty decent status quo even tho the land is very close to ashburn equinix
  22. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · repostRT @atroyn: in the original greek, the word is τέκτων, tekton, a general term for artisans, craftsmen, and builders - indeed, this word has…
  23. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · repostRT @xiphiness: the fewest signals, and only the most intelligently and elegantly encoded
  24. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · quotelol... but like convincing family isn't so simple- we have a quite profitable small business on some of the potential datacenter land... https://x.com/sama/status/1739360234832052641
  25. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@losingcontrol23 im confused why ppl think being hurt makes them more of an authority on human nature... like, i have a lot of experiences of what can go right, best case scenarios, vs their what can go wrong experiences... they're different but we each get such a tiny sample...
  26. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@dziyang i have lived... like, by bodycount, travel, random experiences from just saying Yes... even childhood - a good amount of travel, large network of local relatives, lots of church groups and activities... as an adult, 100% travel consulting and two stays in the psych ward lol...
  27. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@Cererean @_sevatar umm well for one thing sending money? lol i've sent a few ppl money... i don't regret it, but can see how ppl could get scammed?
  28. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@rarelyquinn lol don't i have my chosen birthdate in my profile here? or is it not visible again?
  29. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@Ruesavatar oo those are nice tho! mine wouldn't do my actual body type, ig "cyberpunk librarian vibes" is too strongly associated with extreme thinness
  30. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · repostRT @BasedBeffJezos: Santa busy distributing compute to every e/acc'er's Xmas tree 🎄🚀🎁
  31. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@rissaoffline mmm i need a new heated blanket, so cozy
  32. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@mmt_lvt i don't have adhd! 😵‍💫 or at least not diagnosed
  33. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · quotetag urself... team Santa but love all y'all Grinches https://x.com/monkey_reg/status/1739342874020647401
  34. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · postppl call me sheltered, naive... that i have a younger vibe... that i'm sensitive because i've not had enough trauma... it is all true ig but otoh i've lived for 38 years... why do those experiences not "count" for as much?
  35. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@qephatziel lol stylish
  36. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@the_wilderless candy canes
  37. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · postalexandria https://t.co/xj0LrQt8T6
  38. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@Navier_Tokes eh. not for me it is just annoying
  39. Dec 25, 2023Twitter · reply@Navier_Tokes lol i'm very normie
  40. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@NaamahOrual huh yeah mine is less than that, not really pain or restraints at all, not being ordered to do anything i wouldn't happily do anyway, not really into roleplay or costumes... just, i like following and serving someone who feels wise and self-disciplined... i can't decide if that is "kink" or the most normie trad femme sexuality
  41. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · quotelike, giving massages is wonderful https://x.com/mimi10v3/status/1701785033302814761
  42. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@plains_wraith lol, tesla supercharger tweeting is no distractions nothing else i should be doing
  43. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · quoteotoh sensory play that's not painful... being a happy follower to a wise leader... service as love language... belonging & loyalty... yes to all of that, is that "kink"? https://x.com/mimi10v3/status/1630450261725528066?s=46 https://x.com/mimi10v3/status/1630450261725528066
  44. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · quoteok maybe it does depend exactly where you draw the line wrt "kink" or "bdsm"... but i know i don't want to be hurt physically or emotionally, i don't want my agency taken away, i don't want to feel used or disrespected, and i don't really like the goth / leather aesthetic https://x.com/mimi10v3/status/1738984533758730417
  45. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · repostRT @Frantastic_7: Wishing you all a very merry Christmas and GPU rich holidays 🎄❤️ https://t.co/2y7Xxl7mmW
  46. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@ARLINGTONAF 🫡🫶
  47. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · quotefamily is priceless https://x.com/parmita/status/1739075793463001525
  48. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@dissproportion should've stayed in NoVA tho fr
  49. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@HephaistosF yeah sigh, but selfishly, in terms of happiness.... i wouldn't want to marry someone who hurts ppl
  50. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · quote😞 it really does seem like an early filter should be "did your parents give you a healthy childhood"? https://x.com/ciphergoth/status/1738966702556381438
  51. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@tautologer so twitter as journaling & trying to tune in and respond... i tweet abt emotions a lot to gain skill thru introspection & sharing w hivemind for feedback then also some tweets r mirroring ppl i've heard, or i phrase w more uncertainty to create space for opinions, etc
  52. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@tautologer i mean my model of anxiety is that if ur paying attention to the little shifts u respond and they don't grow into big ick & dread & unhappy memories, vs if u ignore & suppress & dissociate from anxiety it gets louder trying to reach u w the information...?
  53. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@mmt_lvt @pepijndevos spanking seems bizarre & off-putting im playful & within a narrative many things can make sense but aren't in themselves appealing? i like happy stories & moving towards my desires not resisting / running from them or having them run away from me. lead-follow when dancing makes intuitive sense to me tho and yes i'm naturally more…
  54. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · postfeeling anxious abt something is a signal not a weakness
  55. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@Benny42853535 @thechosenberg @andrewjohnson7p i have higher than average preference for authenticity & being able to ask any question that occurs to me, so if i'm going there it'll be open relationship not cheating
  56. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@thechosenberg @andrewjohnson7p 🤣🤣🤣 ppl don't know what they have till they lose it / ppl don't know what they're missing till they try it...
  57. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · quotemake art not god 🫡 https://x.com/the_wilderless/status/1739003965704913108
  58. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@tautologer @fun_vampire0 🤣 ok i get it- ppl massively misunderstood why i tweet as i do... but it's best for magician not to explain the trick, so no worries
  59. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · repostRT @MattDursh: if you are not posting with the youthful optimism of a child with magnificent ideas for a better world then why not?
  60. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@WTTDFP 🫡 jester is a noble calling, keep cultivating the pure heart
  61. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@fun_vampire0 idk, this is my journal, i am def introspective n pay attention to tension n feelings... but like, weird if that's what neuroticism is then i think it's a good trait, self awareness?
  62. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@dav_ell hmmm perhaps.... i feel like the bdsm stuff is like turning up the volume so loud you can't hear the music at all it just hurts
  63. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@NaamahOrual precisely as imagined!
  64. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@mmt_lvt @pepijndevos nah pretty sure im not into that
  65. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@fun_vampire0 what particularly tells you im high neuroticism? am curious abt this because i hear it from ppl but don't really see it myself
  66. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@pepijndevos 🤨 what do you suggest i should try?
  67. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@allgarbled @nutritivesoul @DariasRucker 😏 typical, all of you
  68. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@YosarianTwo hahaha i suppose you could say that... mutual pleasure n connection "kink"
  69. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@ricochicomico1 no no! just twitter discourse, not personal!
  70. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · repostRT @Noahpinion: It's obvious that we should give visas to any skilled worker, anywhere in the world, who wants to come work in the U.S. sem…
  71. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · postLord Dreadwar has been saying that High Openness + High IQ -> High Kink preference bec of boredom... trying to figure out why i'm not really into kink
  72. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@UnofficialRick I support Heph processing & coming to some balanced closure about all that happened
  73. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@llIlllIIIIIIlI why not be judgmental? hold it lightly n don't impose it on others, but opinions r valuable imo!
  74. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@embryosophy haha that's really good! recognizably *you*!
  75. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@bayeslord aww bayes, he sounds amazing, i'm sorry for your loss 🫶
  76. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@spiderfoods may we all get the Christmas we need not the Christmas we deserve
  77. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@UnofficialRick it's a long story, probably not worth knowing unless you want to dig into snarled trauma & pernicious social dynamics
  78. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@WomanCorn this is me tweaking the tail of a certain someone 🤭
  79. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@puheenix boyfriend followers bottoms ... lol
  80. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · quoteand yet this truth is beautiful to me https://x.com/HephaistosF/status/1738922744337617345
  81. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · postmy soulmate will have more followers than me, it is the natural order of things https://t.co/5Nq3DqZyTy
  82. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · repostRT @puheenix: when a tweet breaches containment, you realize how miraculous the reading comprehension skills of tpot are
  83. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@BadMan98368882 huh you think? good-hearted would mean willing to make the hard decisions?
  84. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · quotehmmmm re the screenshotted comment, is this the definitive proof i'm not autistic? i still don't really understand, i pointed out multiple times that throwing stones isn't constructive....? https://x.com/realityspammer/status/1738669769258066058
  85. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · repostRT @typedfemale: i've invented a new type of eval i like to call "the chocolate chip cookie eval" each model will be asked for a chocolate…
  86. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · repostRT @mage_ofaquarius: Don't let anyone BS you about the longhouse, look at Trent Reznor. Trent Reznor made male submission sexy. He's like t…
  87. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@breaking2morrow @lumpenspace 🤭 👉👈
  88. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@breaking2morrow so sweet of u 😘
  89. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · quote🥲OG Beff went out by being too schizo-autist prescient despite social pressure https://x.com/beffjezos/status/1738839519758368925
  90. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · post. @georgejrjrjr most recent search result in my spotify from before today's drive... where does it show for u to know to sing? 🤔 https://t.co/LKZ6TvNL2E
  91. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@breaking2morrow i am officially home safe n snuggled in bed 🫶
  92. Dec 24, 2023Twitter · reply@billyhumblebrag awwwww 🫶
  93. Dec 23, 2023Twitter · repostRT @BasedBeffJezos: Here's to the engineers, the scientists, the builders, the dreamers, the immigrant founders, many of whom can't go hom…
  94. Dec 23, 2023Twitter · reply@EagleOnMars aww 😻
  95. Dec 23, 2023Twitter · reply@plurfae locked accounts dont show up?
  96. Dec 23, 2023Twitter · reply@MaxsBigMove very stylish! & strong sense of honor
  97. Dec 23, 2023Twitter · reply@hopes_revenge 😘 i am too contrary & stubborn
  98. Dec 23, 2023Twitter · reply@will_from_mars_ yeah, but he has returned before
  99. Dec 23, 2023Twitter · quote🫶 https://x.com/ThatRosaryGirl/status/1738661021164728438 https://t.co/ygeA2AY0Sd
  100. Dec 23, 2023Twitter · reply@YeshuaisSavior Idk! seems to have heavy recency bias or something?