you can ask, but if you ask and they collectively ignore you / say no it feels way worse than not asking
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Tweet · Jan 29, 2024if you ever don't want to answer a question, be the first to ask it insteadReply · Mar 26, 2022@DistractedAnna @RiverTamYDN Ugh yes me too... I feel like it falls under "don't ask if you can't handle the answer" and idk if I canReply · Jan 19, 2025@ALightcone lol but you can't be actually asking them all the time that would be too obnoxiousReply · Oct 29, 2023@lumpenspace hmmm I mean it is a bad question, usually the best way to get replies