you can't "game" human relationships- enough of us will toss out the rule book and say no to extreme couponing of our patience
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Reply · Mar 17, 2024@cphrmky who has infinite patience n care though? and given normal mortal limitations, why should these ppl suck up patience n care that could be…Reply · Mar 11, 2023@sailaunderscore haha but like, I also like to skip some of the "define the relationship" -> it becomes a game or obligation and loses some of the joyReply · Feb 11, 2024@Vveeveeanna dark pattern tho, to have someone trying my patience for sport... especially because it reinforces my tendency to ignore & downplay all…Reply · Nov 6, 2023@Cererean 🤔 too much Rationality interferes w all the good relational stuff you mean?