Honestly, just being told "Hey I think this sends a bad message" is the lowest-temperature way to communicate that, and I think that's fine. Because then if the person cares, they can ask why. If we actually have rapport, then I'm more willing to hear more specifics and flesh out the convo too
yeah... there are some ppl on twitter who are in my same circle but not that close and sometimes they post insightful stuff I like and sometimes they post incel / gender takes / rape jokes which I really don't... I've tried replying sincerely (too upsetting for me), just unfollowing (they get upset)
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Reply · Oct 6, 2023@gptbrooke to some extent- through realizing how often my own moods spill over between interactions -> understanding ppl have their own stuff they're…Reply · Mar 28, 2024@wedoforgive lol to the extent it's a violation to send to me unsolicited it is 7000x as bad to tweet it right?Reply · Dec 13, 2023@LordDreadwar @the_wilderless lol that's the most annoying thing! when ppl tell me they are terrible ppl who will hurt me and enjoy doing so and i…Reply · Jul 10, 2023@deepfates @gptbrooke @MasterTimBlais It's tough to interpret because it can be "want you off my feed" or can be "sick of hearing from you" in which…