oh well that just sounds not fun. I actively avoid drama so I'd just be *out* lol, so I may not have great advice for you within that dynamic
I mean the takes are not that terrible but I also accumulate this vague resentment if I keep saying nothing ... but it's kinda crazy that the options are to ignore it, write an upsetting explanation for why they're bad, or block and cause drama and push myself out of a whole group of friends
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