yeah... I just don't share pics of myself online as a safety measure that's under my control... obvs it's complicated but imo it'd be good to shift norms away from expectation of real face when it's not necessary
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Reply · Feb 28, 2022@redoatz Lol one of many reasons it seems better not to share selfies on here... Like me or hate me at least I know it's a response to my words and…Reply · Feb 18, 2024@scholarsmate8 😢 that's tough, i'd probably hide and never go anywhere if ppl were trying to find n share unflattering photos of meReply · Sep 17, 2025@BecomingCritter i avoid taking photos because it seems lose-lose: if it's flattering then is it deceptive, if it's unflattering then i don't want to…Reply · Oct 26, 2022@chrisgardenuk @repetitivesoul Ha I feel the exact opposite it’s my own pic I don’t want to see, makes me self conscious