yeah the "I trust this to be a safe and fun encounter" line is really where I was at for most of life
that's actually a difficult bar though when ppl are rough and unresponsive and do crazy stuff like choking and throwing you around without asking first
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Reply · Nov 21, 2024@river_kenna 😬😬😬 i don't understand it, i've had guys choking me w no warning and it is sooooooo upsetting, i cannot imagine what is fun about it,…Reply · Dec 28, 2023@GabbyMcNabb that sounds fun but what's different about the people / safety?Post · Jun 24, 2023how should a person respond when they have a bad interaction with another member of their community that suggests the person is untrustworthy &…Reply · Dec 28, 2022@nobuhojimichaan Too much caution not enough safety?