i love everyone but it’s so hard to watch girls self sabotage in ways that impact their ability to have a livelihood without shaking them and saying something there’s too many ppl in this community who need guidance tho and i’m just one tran. stresses me out a bit.
are there patterns to it you could warn against once, in general?
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