I was planning to broach the topic of letting posters moderate their replies in a more nuanced way -- and to be clear this is a proposal -- but it came up already so some quick comments on it first of all, going to reiterate my core POV about torment and the nexus thereof
I kinda hate this bec it creates the expectation of moderation by OP and then most likely being bullied for anything anyone says in your replies if you don't remove it fast enough. I'm here to chat not mod a forum.
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Reply · Jan 2, 2023@quotidiania I get that it’s a burden on you to moderate it, but it feels kinda controlling to mandate that ppl not make certain replies… it’s often…Reply · Jun 23, 2023@tunient yeahhhh.... I def don't feel responsible for moderating replies- I don't even read them all! so it kinda annoys me this idea that if you post…Reply · May 26, 2023yeah I get it... just thinking in terms of choice and who kinda opts in to conflict... or like, some ppl feel like their thread, their replies are…Reply · Sep 9, 2022@eigenrobot lol, yeah you do trigger ppl… it’s a weird thing, like I respect ppl moderating what they wanna ingest and the ppl you block are prob net…