I’m telling you, being a dude is going to be a dumbed down, emotionally dead version of yourself. If you need to deflect attention why not go lesbian and stay yourself in every other way?
sigh I guess I feel bad abt that- I used to go to a lesbian club to drink n dance, had women flirt with me and then get upset if I wasn't that serious abt going home w them... Liminal Warmth had a bunch of complaints abt bi-but-mostly-straight women so I feel bad
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