@QiaochuYuan I think it's interesting and appreciate the honesty- my family has some wealth but raised me quite differently with a big emphasis on hard work, starting with menial labor at family businesses and a clear message that I should support myself by 21.
@QiaochuYuan They set me up for success by paying for a reliable car and college education, and by paying me for part time work in my teens... But then didn't give me any significant cash until my 30s.
@QiaochuYuan Oh, except they did finance my house- I put 25% down from my savings, they loaned me the other 75% as a mortgage which I've been repaying on schedule, but at a better-than-market rate with zero lender fees.