@RokoMijic Even if she's not looking for commitment, she's looking for signs the guy will treat her respectfully and be a fun safe experience... Going home with a guy, you never really *know* what you're walking into. By making it harder to judge, women are less inclined to take the risk.
@RokoMijic I don't 100% blame it on "pickup", but I gave up on dating many years ago because I found it a net negative, overall.