Hah more dating / marriage discourse... The thought of marriage in the abstract feels net negative to me, but there is one particular Type of Guy I can imagine marrying...
Oddly, my prototypical guy would be a West African male nurse working in assisted living with a warm tolerant laugh for all the crotchety old ladies... That grounded good-humored kindness type of guy who'd be amused by and supportive of all my big ideas.
Other Type of Guy who shows up in my dreams lives and works on his family's farm, quietly intuitive, animals love him though he's easily tripped up by chatty women