@protoneutype lol on distractions, I guess that doesn't happen to me, usually the other person *is* the distraction from everything else in my life... And yeah agree *bad* sex is less n less worth it w age, but one gets better at predicting which will be good?
@protoneutype Also lol I get way more chatty once relaxed and cuddling in bed afterwards, so the sex is almost just a prelude to the real fun of conversation