@zeit_sinn Yeah, I think pressing for verbal commitment too soon gets you a no because it’s not yet a yes… it’s ok to ask if you want closure more than you want to maximize the odds of getting to yes, but otherwise I’d let it play out a bit more first
@zeit_sinn women do send nonverbal messages, either positive inviting or negative pushback… you’re supposed to read them and escalate or back off accordingly… if she has to spell it out you’re already losing some points for not reading her correctly (which yes is tough!)
@zeit_sinn It’s a dance, pull and push, getting a feel for each other… and either it works and ignites into passion, or it’s a bit off and fades into friendship without an awkward direct rejection