@nascentwisp Otoh I don’t want to be liked for hypomanic mimi- I’ve had a guy tell me “you’re so fun this way! Why can’t you be like this all the time?” … and like, wish I could but sometimes I’m a walking party and other times I’m pretty quiet and emo
@nascentwisp And otoh I’ve had dates where my depressive side was an attraction, and that’s no good either- can’t be all moody poetry and needing cuddles