Ooooh… this clears up something that’s confused me about Buddhism for a long time https://x.com/nickcammarata/status/1601275748844998659
Nick’s flow of feelings metaphor is a much better description of what I was trying to say here… that allowing my reactions to flow faster instead of grabbing & holding them somehow works better? https://x.com/mimi10v3/status/1600178602485506049
Like riding a bucking horse- tensing up and trying to hold steady when everything around you is moving results in you disconnecting from the horse for a hard landing