@MarkovMagnifico yeah, I mean it's true in a sense that you shouldn't take over and fix someone else's life and that pushy attempts to do so may go over badly...
@MarkovMagnifico but just in terms of giving honest feedback, I think ppl hesitate a lot and sometimes the most helpful thing is a clear "imo do it" or "imo don't" which then clarifies my own instincts for or against
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