@fodagut @vestiphile hah, yeah... I do try to ask if someone wants my opinion, or take a cue from their complaints ("i'm so lost & idk what to do!" is diff than "everyone is bullying me!" or "they don't listen!")
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Reply · Apr 16, 2023you can ask, but if you ask and they collectively ignore you / say no it feels way worse than not askingReply · Nov 29, 2023@motusalt lol it's true ppl only want advice when they're looking for answers, and even then...Reply · Feb 10, 2023@Triooops @gptbrooke I sometimes disagree w someone's take to shake them out of what imo is a major error... I hesitate and question whether it's more…Reply · Oct 20, 2023@a_musingcat what's your advice? block everyone who doesn't agree w you?