@fun_vampire0 @lillybilly299 yeah, but this is my experience w random dudes who just DM... I've had a lot of fun DMs w ppl who also engage on the TL / in GCs- it's possible to have friends & flirtations when they're treating you like an interesting *person*
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Reply · Aug 16, 2023@sadalsvvd yes! my DMs are closed but I'll follow back easily enough if people interact with me on the TL first... I don't like getting cold DMs…Reply · Jan 30, 2023@parafactual lol idk abt that but I do limit my DMs to follows bec the random context-free DMs are too distracting & low value, vs if I've followed…Reply · Jul 9, 2023@formrpessimist aww, I like them because I feel like I get to know people better than on the TL and it's easier to be vulnerable / share doxxable…Reply · Sep 16, 2023@mmt_lvt 🫶 lol I mean there's a middle ground if you want something to work out, gotta take a few calculated risks! but that's very very different…