@repligate yeah, actually this was the experience that made me quit dating for 7 yrs... but I feel like it's a separate question bec if I wasn't enthusiastically consenting before then there wasn't really a connection to "ruin"?
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Reply · Sep 1, 2021@CjgbVictoria @robinhanson Ugh I've totally experienced this... One of the various experiences that led me to resign from dating.Reply · Feb 5, 2023@evilJBP as a single woman who quit dating for 7 yrs, I had concluded it was a net-negative endeavor 🤷♀️Reply · Nov 13, 2023@getnormality lol i went on a lot of dates in my 20s before giving up, probably more than 100 guys? it was just overall meh/ I didn't respect them…Reply · Oct 2, 2022@majormobius 😅 good to hear! I kinda quit dating for years because I felt guilty for rejecting ppl on this basis but couldn’t convince myself to feel…