@thevoidbeckon ppl should control themselves? how is this different than things like gambling or drugs which are obvs net negative and therefore easy to say no to?
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Reply · Jun 18, 2023@shinygoldbars eh I dislike gambling, buffets, heavy drinking, and feeling pressured to dress slutty... what else is there?Reply · Dec 9, 2025@nearcyan @growing_daniel tbh i feel the same about gambling as i do about porn- it has no appeal to me and i feel like ppl who enjoy it get very…Reply · Oct 24, 2022@joodaloop For: spiritual practice of saying yes to the universe and non-attachment; marginal utility of $20 to you vs them- like, enjoy the…Reply · Jul 23, 2024@getnormality yes but also have some guardrails ... like, no cheating, stay anon, check in w someone before spending significant money or giving big…