@Nominus9 yeah... it's funny I was raised w the "all are sinful" meme and perfectionist high standards from my parents, had to reevaluate my standard to more like... what would I expect / want from an imperfect but good human?
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Reply · Mar 9, 2023@kapv89 I do think it matters to hold yourself to standards and not just decide because it's not totally universal & objective you can do whatever you…Reply · Nov 17, 2023@animalologist @SonyaTwete so true.... insisting on seeing them as perfect is kinda lying to yourself & pressuring them to *be* perfect in every way…Reply · Mar 3, 2026😅 oh no is that a list of my sins?Reply · Aug 31, 2025@lovabler0gue it's more a matter of community norms, blatant hypocrisy and rewriting the past