haha background is the replies to this poll & prev threads where men were complaining that "emotional maturity" is an unclear demand with no obvious path to achieving it https://x.com/mimi10v3/status/1634388909105852417
and imo we'd all be better off if some of the energy that goes into deadlifts and side hustles was instead directed at social & emotional development
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Repost · Apr 12, 2022RT @MindTendencies2: Maturity is raising your emotional intelligence instead of raising your voice.Reply · Jan 27, 2022@MeiselZachary @hyperboreanterf Nah, I think women want men who are at/above their level - *capable* of conquering- and yet emotionally mature and…Reply · Jan 25, 2023@losingcontrol23 @DvnnyyPhantom hahahahaha love this... tho, too low is probably avoidant? might need a few subscales that add up to emotional…Reply · Mar 10, 2023@brickroad7 I disagree so much, like personality in the broad sense of how you relate to others, social skills n emotional maturity n etc