@lumpthought idk remembering some stories of ppl I've known... who both needed to hear that the abuse they suffered wasn't their fault but also idk they were doing terrible things out of repressed anger abt the abuse and idk
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Reply · Apr 2, 2023@lumpthought yeah but like... idk it's a tricky balance... ppl suffering and perpetuating harm but also don't wanna hear it's all meaningless /…Reply · Nov 8, 2023@IvyAstrix @ad0rnai @SimoneSyed 😕 yeah, I remember this, is frustrating to feel like there's ppl who want to paper over discomfort & hurt rather than…Reply · Mar 19, 2022@righteousritard yep, that moment of realizing someone didn't do something just to spite you, they did it because it's the very best they could…Reply · Mar 27, 2024@MalmSanta long story sigh but origin is abusive relationship a long time ago