I mean if it works for some ppl great... but to define yourself by relationship to someone else is giving up a lot of agency and there's this toxic version of "trad" that disempowers women (which imo isn't necessarily the case- I have quiverful fam who don't bully their wives)
often when dati g it felt like I needed to make myself *smaller* so my date could be the relatively stronger leader... I'm not 10/10 gorgeous to be w the most alpha successful guys, but I am pretty smart and independent so it's hard to find a match that feels right
pretty good overall! I'm very slightly sore from working in my garden last night- cleared the weeds and worked the soil and planted carrots and transplanted some strawberries that had escaped their beds... mentally I'm excited n scattered from all the AI advances all the time
lol I really should watch these movies shouldn't I? (tbh am just proud I recognized them as movies!) Wall-E is the cute one right? so marry them... I guess I'd rather not fuck a cop so fuck Terminator and kill Robocop