@chairsign lol yeah I'm kinda opposed to making strong words ironic unless you've got a good replacement lined up, bec otherwise you're making it impossible to talk about the real thing the word originally pointed at
More notes on nearby ideas
Reply · Mar 22, 2023@jeremymstamper yes that word was used... but since imo it is both derogatory and inaccurate I rephrased lolReply · Aug 5, 2025@ZyMazza yes, it has been explicitly defined as such to me recently by multiple people so i'm going with that, though i really wish we could have a…Reply · Feb 2, 2023@gedougen hmm perhaps that's the problem, I'm more sincere than sarcastic... to me hearing hurtful words still feels bad even if intellectually I know…Reply · Jun 2, 2023@allgarbled so true, pretty clearly just horniness directed into what they think is a more socially appropriate expression (but it is not!)