@MySubliminalMSG I think it's possible to be pretty close to this but also that idealization makes any small issue into a much bigger worry that if they're not perfect then is this "the one"?
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Reply · Feb 19, 2025@crossedrubicon kinda agree, but i do think you should question a bit when things seem tooooo immediately perfect because the other person might not…Tweet · May 27, 2024maybe the problem really IS unreasonably high expectations all around 🤔Reply · Jul 2, 2023@repetitivesoul something seems off abt idealizing nonexistence, frfrReply · Nov 17, 2023@animalologist @SonyaTwete so true.... insisting on seeing them as perfect is kinda lying to yourself & pressuring them to *be* perfect in every way…