@Slplss_In_Japan @angelfir_e @Aella_Girl hah! I mean if I have a chance to choose / communicate I avoid stuff I don't like... it's having it sprung on me without a chance to say no that I dislike
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Reply · May 2, 2024@garybasin no, that's exactly the point- my ability to say no for myself is very important to me and i don't want to put myself in a situation where…Reply · Oct 23, 2023@megs_io yeah, funny mix between "don't be passive, express preferences" and "don't do this weird thing I dislike" (for lots of somewhat popular…Reply · Nov 28, 2023@YeshuaisSavior i agree you can't say everything, if only bec nobody got time for that, and is good to choose your moments wisely (sigh, i fail at…Reply · Aug 9, 2023@AbigailSossen 😅 difficult one! I've found I just avoid talking to ppl to avoid promising anything