@chopstickfury01 do you split expenses evenly or by ability to pay, who decides where to go and how much to spend, etc... if richer person pays for stuff does the poorer person feel obligated to cater to their whims / does the richer person wonder if their friends are just using them...
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Reply · May 23, 2023@ThatShawGuy @chopstickfury01 @HemlockTapioca I've hung out w ppl richer than me and I feel like there's some unspoken tension that relaxes when I…Reply · May 23, 2023@HemlockTapioca @chopstickfury01 would you expect the richer friend to pay for everything even if they live a more frugal life and didn't choose the…Reply · May 23, 2023@HemlockTapioca @chopstickfury01 yeah, and then this is back to the weird power dynamic undertone if the poorer person is paying close attention to…Reply · Sep 21, 2021@mbs59er 🤔 this would be consistent if they believe that the rich are currently paying *more* than their "fair share"...