@HemlockTapioca @chopstickfury01 would you expect the richer friend to pay for everything even if they live a more frugal life and didn't choose the activity/ got pushed into doing something more expensive?
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Reply · May 23, 2023@chopstickfury01 do you split expenses evenly or by ability to pay, who decides where to go and how much to spend, etc... if richer person pays for…Reply · May 23, 2023@HemlockTapioca @chopstickfury01 yeah, and then this is back to the weird power dynamic undertone if the poorer person is paying close attention to…Reply · May 23, 2023@Slplss_In_Japan @HemlockTapioca @chopstickfury01 and then I've seen ppl complaining that they don't want to invite poorer friends along on vacations…Reply · Jan 14, 2024@mmt_lvt hmm ok maybe it's the other side of it that needs calibration- choosing not to pay for stuff unless the money feels inconsequential vs the…