@charmide @louis02x @allgarbled the thing is they do a terrible job of it by aiming their arguments at a male perspective- like, inability / unwillingness to understand & speak to the potential mother's motivations n feelings is such a negative signal...
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Reply · Aug 29, 2025@TomWright165389 it doesn't say that though, it just casts vague aspersions that even a woman who cooks and exercises and seems cheerful still might…Reply · Jan 28, 2023@AngantyrFS nah, would be seen as too biased in favor of women, never happenReply · Aug 29, 2025@TomWright165389 how is it implied- what am i missing? and like, what's she supposed to have done differently to be good enough to be a mother?Reply · Feb 11, 2024@chopstickfury01 @generic_void huh perhaps that's how men think of her... 🤔