@automaetopia @smylkshmn nah it's true, if a guy is particularly mature n warm n relaxed abt being pushed away it def makes us wonder if we've made a mistake
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Reply · Dec 15, 2022@skooookum Why do you think this? I think guys with softer vibes are less intimidatingReply · Sep 15, 2023@tunient @animalologist @MarkovMagnifico logically this sounds good... in practice, subconsciously, I've not seen it happen - but also the person w…Reply · Nov 29, 2023@BadMan98368882 well, in an ideal world it wouldn't be.... but if the guy's visible yearning & possessiveness is becoming a problem..?Reply · Jan 20, 2024@noharamnofoul lol yeahhhh i think it is easier to get pushback and insist "no seriously you kinda suck in this particular way" than to gently suggest…