@Slplss_In_Japan they've got cause and effect backwards though- I've slept w a lot of ppl in part bec I wanted to make it not a special thing that the guy who raped from me took and bec it is difficult to trust men enough to develop feelings for them
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Reply · Jul 26, 2023@GarrettPetersen yes, the rapists. make it difficult to trust / bond with anyone else afterwardsReply · Mar 3, 2022@DistractedAnna No but I have found that occasionally someone's actions mean that I will never see them in the same light again... Who knew a…Reply · Jan 25, 2024@retarded_whore date rape -> abusive relationship; yeah made me anxious about rejecting men and whether they will listen when i say noReply · Jul 31, 2022@QiaochuYuan You’re not wrong… otoh it’s not a binary judgement, more an ongoing calculation of odds of getting raped given the person and context……