@LastNPCAlex ha yeah maybe... I got raised as pretty gender-neutral "oldest child"- played soccer on a boys team before there was a girls league, lots of fishing and woodworking and sports w my dad
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Reply · Sep 5, 2025@liz_love_lace well sure- in my swe career i was usually the only non-male on the team (and i didn't go to high school, so missed some identity…Reply · Jun 13, 2023@QiaochuYuan ohhhh maybe that's my problem I never wanted to have kids so I'm not really gendered?Reply · Nov 12, 2023@MalmSanta my dad is more the sort who's naturally solitary and forces himself to have social & leadership skills to coach soccer and manage ppl...…Reply · Dec 25, 2022@vaporous_ford My dad likes soccer and hiking, my mom likes gardening and wine