why are there so many virgin dudes in my DMs? like really... they're all post-college at least, several in their 30s... sigh
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Reply · Sep 5, 2025@BenShindel oh well maybe if you're a virgin they don't bother yeahReply · Jun 21, 2022@postdharma Why are men like this?Reply · Jun 2, 2023@louis02x @allgarbled yes tho I've been the first for several awkward techie dudes so maybe I'm overindexing on that? but like, some of the guys…Reply · Nov 8, 2023@lastofhiskind lol my DMs are closed to ppl I don't follow bec i don't like random DMs expecting emotional labor from home, but even before I didn't…