@AndreasLinder10 in the abusive relationship I was in, any resistance triggered aggression... saying "fuck off" to someone is very anxiety-inducing for me because it feels like I'm inviting attack
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Reply · Jun 23, 2023@tenobrus @gptbrooke @QiaochuYuan for me, I've done it bec of abusive relationship- didn't feel safe to say anything except what they wanted to…Reply · Jul 5, 2022@eurydicelives Anger is motivation to engage rather than retreat, it only happens when I’m not too scared, I tend to think of it as a good sign that a…Reply · Sep 29, 2026@disharmonesia idk i can be worn down or intimidated but you're not winning points just scaring me into compliance and then i'll go no contact when i…Reply · Oct 17, 2023@lumpenspace idk it's a general problem... like, someone being aggressive towards me but also someone being anxious & restraining himself from being…