@scanstone1 @VivaLaPanda_ I'm not saying ppl should avoid relationships, I'm saying that pinning self improvement plans on someone else's willingness to be in a relationship seems kinda unfortunate
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Reply · Mar 12, 2023@epistemichorse @notoriousdmm 🤣 I will not participate in perpetrating this lie / cope. tho getting a challenging job can be impetus for a cascade of…Reply · Jul 29, 2023@somewheresy 🤷♀️ idk, I think ppl idealize romantic connection at the expense of other forms of relationshipsReply · Feb 28, 2024@victorysflame 👌 yes! better to be alone n available than in a pointless bad relationshipReply · Dec 12, 2023@feychoo only sometimes but it's sure better than going on dates & actually risking relationships