@tenobrus @gptbrooke @QiaochuYuan for me, I've done it bec of abusive relationship- didn't feel safe to say anything except what they wanted to hear... and then sometimes guys w pushy vibes trigger the same fawn reflex in me... like, it's about feeling safe vs like I'm inviting someone to hit me if I reject them
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Reply · Sep 29, 2026@disharmonesia idk i can be worn down or intimidated but you're not winning points just scaring me into compliance and then i'll go no contact when i…Reply · Jun 19, 2023@AndreasLinder10 in the abusive relationship I was in, any resistance triggered aggression... saying "fuck off" to someone is very anxiety-inducing…Reply · Jan 25, 2024@retarded_whore date rape -> abusive relationship; yeah made me anxious about rejecting men and whether they will listen when i say noReply · Jan 31, 2023@repligate oh, hm yeah this has definitely happened to me, didn't think of it when I answered the Q tho... like, guy friend at my place and drinking…