@nbouscal yeah, it's like, my career has been w all male teams and I feel I have an asterisk on my gender and I want it removed... whether the label on the asterisk is woman or nonbinary or agender doesn't really get at what I want
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Reply · Jun 14, 2023@realtimeai @YosarianTwo because quite a few ppl have told me I have a male mind and I've had male friends & colleagues all my life .... I'm not sure…Reply · Sep 5, 2025@liz_love_lace well sure- in my swe career i was usually the only non-male on the team (and i didn't go to high school, so missed some identity…Reply · Sep 5, 2025@oren_ai yeah i think agender is probably accurate, i feel like i'm missing the thing that everyone else feels so strongly aboutReply · Sep 22, 2021@primalpoly Ugh I'd prefer we de-emphasize gender when possible- let me dress up as Spiderman without telling me that identifying with a male…