first message after posting the link... 😅 not what I had in mind but…

Jul 7, 2023, 14:34 EDT

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ok, inevitable conclusion- here's my NGL link if you'd like to give thoughtful feedback without posting under your name : https://ngl.link/mimi10v31 I may or may not share screenshots, tbd when I see how it feels (but say "don't share" if you want it to stay private)

first message after posting the link... 😅 not what I had in mind but anyway... given I don't post pics I feel like any romantic notions are kinda premature till we meet IRL... which I'm down for w moots who find themselves in the DC area or if I'm traveling

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Jul 7, 2023, 14:39 EDTOpen note

not sure how to take these... in context of "give me feedback" ig "dreamy" resonates- I don't focus n finish things I start, some combo of trouble w focus and anxiety abt the results not being good enough

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Jul 7, 2023, 14:45 EDTOpen note

lol at this one because I can't decide how I feel about it... how does someone become "more solid" if they're high openness personality n often curious to learn more?

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Jul 7, 2023, 15:11 EDTOpen note

hard to interpret "top 3" and I'm probably recency biased, however... @skooookum @deepfates @MeiselZachary & @IvyAstrix @astralwalkk @repetitivesoul

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Jul 7, 2023, 15:20 EDTOpen note

oh wait also ofc deep loyalty n love to @EagleOnMars and @allgarbled should be on the list too! gender ratio strikes again!

Jul 7, 2023, 15:29 EDTOpen note

🥹🫶🤣 guys, I think we've gone off topic... I was looking for criticism n disagreement n call outs minus having to post it under your name if that's inhibiting you

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Jul 7, 2023, 17:04 EDTOpen note

Ah this... I have actually received quite a lot of feedback about this and still idk... I don't really fit into the "woman" gender role and don't like the associated social dynamics, I can either keep yelling "not all women" into the void or conclude I'm not a woman

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Jul 7, 2023, 17:24 EDTOpen note

oversharing is a problem especially on Twitter, I don't think it's healthy to discuss absolutely everything in public, breaks the norms of reciprocal progressive disclosure for relationship building

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Jul 7, 2023, 17:25 EDTOpen note

like, to post details that most ppl would feel vulnerable abt you have to numb yourself to the potential feedback, which... idk if it is good to have that much armor on

Jul 7, 2023, 17:47 EDTOpen note

lol... I kinda agree w this tho hard to say exactly why & it's not intentional on my part... when I was a child I was quite serious n mature n ppl would tell me I seemed much older... idk if I'm aging backwards or stuck in my 20s or 🤷‍♀️