idk if "harder" but maybe I have high standards and dating midwits is…

Jul 10, 2023, 00:54 EDT

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I'm not ace lol, maybe sapiosexual and it's tough to find really smart men? Building a home is next on my list but it's too long to type out and thinking abt everything I wanna do is overwhelming

idk if "harder" but maybe I have high standards and dating midwits is bad bec they're used to being smarter than the women they date and get insecure n annoying when they don't have that advantage over me yes, I've had a horse before; they're a big commitment tho

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I drank bec was out w friends n it was the social thing to do 🤷‍♀️ I don't enjoy making anyone feel stupid and would like a partner who can take the lead without me second guessing his decisions

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