@LastNPCAlex and the asynchronous nature of the conversations- I feel like I have too many open idle connections that are not particularly satisfying but also overall are consuming mental resources & slots in my Dunbar limit
@LastNPCAlex so I'm grumpy and uninviting because I don't want more open idle conversations but also kinda lonely and unfulfilled
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