@BecomingCritter introduce yourself with a smile, be reasonably direct, don't give creepy physical compliments choose the time & place so there's an easy out if it's a no- don't block the path to the exit and time it so you don't have to awkwardly linger nearby
@BecomingCritter vibe should be low-key confident, not apologizing for asking but also perfectly ok with the fact that it might be a no for a million reasons that aren't about you
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