who is easier to help to solve their problems- someone who's ego is tied to not needing any help? or someone who has a helpless victim mindset?
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Tweet · Nov 11, 2023something I've been thinking about the past few weeks- do I come off as if I'm helpless or looking for a rescuer or parent? i'm ok even when i'm…Reply · Jun 14, 2024@lisatomic5 imo this mindset creates the difficulty it tries to solve - abdicating responsibility for any need you aren't 100% inclined to meet = race…Reply · Apr 24, 2023@QiaochuYuan oo, yeah I think that could be really great for ppl who feel this way, or are trying to understand & help ppl who feel this way...Reply · Apr 16, 2023you can ask, but if you ask and they collectively ignore you / say no it feels way worse than not asking