@chaosprime I've had both and I prefer the bad one w consent because it's not damaging to trust in the way the coercion is...
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Reply · Nov 17, 2024@1thousandfaces_ 🥺😭 it really does, giving too much trust and being punished for it is so painful to recalibrateReply · Dec 21, 2022@MasterTimBlais @JonTheLLM Imo letting go of the guilt and then realizing what you really want *is* the second without any coercion or guiltReply · Mar 17, 2022@joodaloop @profpujz @eurydicelives Trust isn't binary? Trust them not to screw you over for less gain than you've seen them resist taking from…Reply · Mar 23, 2024@oren_ai neither though! i like sex w mutual pleasure w eager partner, the thought of forcing someone is as bad as being forced