@epistemichorse I've also heard advice to not have one child unless you will do whatever it takes to give them siblings... which extends the timeframe and if you want them with a reasonable age gap means you're dealing w infant + toddlers
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Reply · May 5, 2025@Stevoblevo @ZyMazza i'm not sure what good it does to deceive myself on this subject- i'm old the clock is running out and i'd rather not have…Reply · Jul 28, 2026@cammakingminds @cybelethebest yes, or at least we should focus our efforts elsewhere. imo children deserve at least starting out with two plausibly…Reply · Feb 21, 2022@sgodofsk @whitewolf_works @ouranometrian 😏 you want 10 kids?Reply · Apr 23, 2026@RokoMijic i think children prefer to have two healthy parents