@Aella_Girl @BecomingCritter 👍 I don't mean it as a value judgement... I like affectionate sex where the guy is very responsive to my preferences- like, more than average- which is quite different than what you've described- so I dislike guys sending me your tweets / referring to them as a way of flirting
@Aella_Girl @BecomingCritter and because of the nonconsent / aggro stuff I feel like it's important to be clear about my preference NOT to have any of that done to me, so no one tries it on me thinking it'll go over well
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