@jicapal do you recommend being unpleasant instead? I relate to this but also am unsure what default baseline looks like other than polite and positive and concerned
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Reply · May 30, 2023hah, I'm probably the most problematic here, will try to behave going forward - less bickering more building <3Reply · Jul 28, 2024@MoonRotator nahhh niceness is shallow but it is very useful in dealing with strangers & adversaries who you'd prefer not to engage in open combatReply · Oct 31, 2023@willi_barron sigh yeah, but it's such a negative signal to ppl I'd actually want to interact withReply · Sep 19, 2024@fhkburner idk just if ur kinda rigid/intense work on softening & empathizing, if ur kinda soft/self-pitying it is time to man up & do some tough…