@jachaseyoung I see it differently... if someone is gossiping about me in a negative sense, I dislike that they hold a negative opinion of me to begin with... but given that not everyone is gonna love you, imo talking about their feelings privately w mutual friends is preferable to bottling it up or public call outs
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Reply · May 27, 2025@lumpenspace 🤷♀️ ... 🥰 ... i DO generally agree w your take that discussing current relationship dynamics publicly is not worth itReply · Aug 4, 2026@plzdontkillus_ um i guess so but generally i prefer conversations in public so they're shareableReply · Jul 7, 2023@chopstickfury01 lol perhaps.... all my life I've felt like ppl don't give me honest negative feedback in proportion to their negative feelings... I…Tweet · Aug 29, 2024i heard some of y'all were talking about me in a group chat. cool! gossip is Good Actually 😇